Motor Milestones

When Do Babies Hold Their Head Up?Neck Control Timeline

From wobbly to steady—the complete guide to baby head control development. Plus tummy time tips for building strong muscles.

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Tummy Time Essentials

The Short Answer

Babies develop good head control around 3-4 months old. At this age, they can hold their head steady when upright and lift it 90° during tummy time. Full, reliable head control is typically established by 5-6 months.

Head Control Timeline

Newborn

No Head Control

Head flops without support. Baby can briefly turn head side to side while lying down.

Always support baby's head and neck when holding
1 month

Momentary Lifts

During tummy time, may briefly lift head at 45° angle for a few seconds

Keep supporting head; start short tummy time sessions
2 months

Stronger Lifts

Can hold head up at 45° for longer periods during tummy time

Continue head support when upright; increase tummy time
3-4 months

Steady Control

Head is steady when held upright. Can hold head at 90° during tummy time, looking around.

Still support head during transitions and when tired
5-6 months

Full Control

Head control is well established. Can look around freely, sits with support.

Head support rarely needed except during rough play

Why Head Control Matters

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Vision Development

Holding the head up allows baby to see the world, track objects, and develop visual skills.

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Foundation for Rolling

Strong neck muscles are essential for learning to roll over, the next major motor milestone.

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Sitting & Beyond

Head control is necessary before baby can sit, stand, and eventually walk safely.

Tummy Time Tips

Tummy time builds the muscles needed for head control. Here's how to make it work.

Start Early

Begin tummy time in the first week of life. Start with 1-2 minutes, 2-3 times a day.

Build Up Gradually

Work toward 30-60 minutes total per day by 3 months (in short sessions throughout the day).

Get on Their Level

Lie on the floor face-to-face with baby. Your face is the best motivation!

Try Different Surfaces

Tummy time on your chest, on a Boppy pillow, or on a play mat with toys.

Use Motivation

Place colorful toys, mirrors, or black and white images in front of baby to encourage lifting.

Time It Right

Do tummy time when baby is alert and happy—not right after feeding or when sleepy.

Tummy Time Activities by Difficulty

If baby hates the floor, try these alternatives

Easiest

Chest-to-Chest

Recline and place baby on your chest face-down. Talk and sing so they lift to see you.

Easy

Football Hold

Carry baby face-down along your forearm, supporting chest. Great for fussy babies!

Easy

Boppy/Pillow Support

Place baby's chest on a nursing pillow with arms in front. Takes pressure off.

Moderate

Lap Tummy Time

Place baby across your lap face-down. Gently pat or rub their back.

Most challenging

Floor Tummy Time

Classic position on a play mat. Place toys and mirrors for motivation.

Active play

Roll Exercises

Gently roll baby from back to tummy and vice versa, pausing in each position.

When to Talk to Your Pediatrician

Every baby develops at their own pace, but mention to your doctor if:

  • !Baby cannot lift head at all during tummy time by 2 months
  • !Head still flops significantly when held upright at 4 months
  • !Head consistently tilts to one side (possible torticollis)
  • !Baby seems unusually floppy or stiff overall

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