Baby learning to talk and communicate first words

When Do Babies Talk?

From first coos to "mama" and beyond

Most babies say their first real word around 12 months old, but language development starts at birth. From those first coos to "mama" and "dada," here's what to expect.

Language Development Timeline

0-2 mo

Crying & Cooing

Different cries for different needs. Soft vowel sounds like "ooh" and "ahh."

3-4 mo

Babbling Begins

Playing with sounds, squealing, laughing. Vocal experimentation!

5-7 mo

Canonical Babbling

Consonant-vowel combos: "ba-ba," "ma-ma," "da-da" (not yet meaningful).

8-10 mo

Jargoning

Babbling with sentence-like rhythm and tone. Sounds like talking but no real words.

10-14 mo

First Words!

"Mama," "dada," "ball," "dog" - words with consistent meaning.

18-24 mo

Word Explosion

Vocabulary jumps from ~20 words to 200+. Two-word phrases emerge.

Products to Encourage Language Development

These toys and books can help your baby's speech:

Most Common First Words

People & Pets

  • • Mama / Mommy
  • • Dada / Daddy
  • • Baby
  • • Dog / Doggy
  • • Cat / Kitty

Action & Social

  • • Hi / Bye-bye
  • • No (popular!)
  • • More
  • • Up
  • • Uh-oh

Food & Drink

  • • Milk
  • • Juice
  • • Banana (nana)
  • • Cookie
  • • Water (wa-wa)

Objects

  • • Ball
  • • Book
  • • Shoe
  • • Car
  • • Duck

📊 Vocabulary Milestones

12 months:1-3 words
15 months:5-10 words
18 months:15-20 words
24 months:200-300 words, 2-word phrases
3 years:1,000+ words, short sentences

Note: These are averages. Wide variation is normal.

How to Encourage Talking

  • Narrate everything: "I'm putting on your red shirt. Now your pants. Let's find your shoes!"
  • Read daily: Even newborns benefit from hearing books read aloud
  • Respond to babbling: Treat it like conversation. "Oh really? Tell me more!"
  • Label objects: Point and name things consistently
  • Sing songs: Music and rhythm support language development
  • Wait and listen: Pause to let baby "respond" - don't fill all the silence
  • Expand their words: If they say "ball," say "Yes! Red ball!"
  • Limit screen time: Real conversation beats passive watching

Understanding vs Speaking

Babies understand far more than they can say. By 12 months, most babies understand 50+ words even if they only say 1-3. This is called "receptive language" and it develops ahead of "expressive language."

Signs baby understands you:

  • Looks at objects when you name them
  • Follows simple commands ("Give me the cup")
  • Responds to their name
  • Points to body parts when asked
  • Waves bye-bye, plays peek-a-boo
Parent talking to baby encouraging language development

Bilingual Babies

If you're raising a bilingual child, their first words may be a mix of both languages. They may seem to have fewer words in each language, but their TOTAL vocabulary is often similar to monolingual peers.

Bilingualism does NOT cause speech delays. Keep speaking both languages - the long-term benefits are significant.

When to Talk to Your Pediatrician

Mention concerns if:

  • No babbling by 9 months
  • No gestures (pointing, waving) by 12 months
  • No words by 16 months
  • No 2-word phrases by 24 months
  • Loss of language skills at any age
  • Doesn't respond to their name consistently
  • Not interested in communicating

Early intervention for speech delays is very effective. The earlier, the better.

What About Baby Sign Language?

Teaching simple signs (more, milk, all done) can reduce frustration before verbal language develops. Research shows it doesn't delay talking - babies will naturally switch to spoken words when ready.

Popular starter signs:

  • More: Fingertips touch together
  • All done: Hands twist back and forth
  • Milk: Squeeze fist open and closed
  • Eat: Fingertips to mouth
  • Help: Thumb up on flat palm

Sources: American Academy of Pediatrics, American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, CDC Developmental Milestones

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